Dear MISSter Simms,
At a Halloween party last weekend, my boyfriend started talking about how he and a friend of his he had hooked up with last year were going out on Halloween together and were planning on doing a themed costume. Fast forward to Halloween and that’s exactly what happened. They actually went out as Eric and Sookie from True Blood. Now, I’m not necessarily mad that my boyfriend did a themed costume with a girl he hooked up with in the past, but I am mad that he didn’t even invite me to join in. Do you think he was just being a jerk at that moment, or is this a sign of something more? Help!
Ditched on Halloween
Whoa whoa whoa. The corpse of Ray Charles, the three blind mice, and Stevie Wonder can all see that something isn’t right with the relationship you’ve got going on right now. First sign of trouble: your boyfriend is going out with someone he hooked up with before. Hook up can mean a lot of different things to different people, but we can all agree that if you hook up with someone you at least find them mildly attractive in some kind of way. Second sign of trouble: going out in a themed costume with this person. If they were going out as something harmless like say…I don’t know…the Mario Bros. or something, then OK. But Eric and Sookie? Didn’t they have like witch induced magical fairy sex every other episode two seasons ago? Third sign of trouble: YOU WEREN’T EVEN INVITED. Ding ding ding sound the alarm. I think it’s safe to say that your boyfriend just isn’t that into you anymore.
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