Dear MISSter Simms,
I have a wonderful boyfriend that I’ve been with for the past eight months. What he doesn’t know is that, for the past few years, I’ve found myself more and more attracted to my own sex. The only time I’ve been with another girl was back in high school when I experimented with a friend of mine. Ever since then I’ve strictly dated guys. But, I always find myself wondering…what if? My current guy is really great, and I don’t want to ruin what we have because of my urges. But it’s getting harder and harder to ignore them, too. What do you think I should do?
Woman Seeking Women
What do I think you should do? Why, the only sensible thing of course: find a third party to have a wild threesome with! Just bring up the idea with your boo over some dinner. Unless he’s a fanatical puritan he’ll probably be more than open to the idea. Once he’s down, all you really have to do is find a willing person that you both can agree on. You get the best of both worlds in this situation. Not only will you still be able to stay in your relationship, but you’ll get to experiment and unleash all those pent-up urges. Now whether you continue down the womanly path is up to you, but at least it’ll be out in the open afterward.
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