Dear MISSter Simms,
Me and my boyfriend are taking a break at the moment for various reasons and are both casually dating other people. We also happen to have a child together. There is one person in particular lately that has me feeling giddy like a kid again: my boyfriend’s brother. In the back of my mind I know it’s “wrong”, but it feels like it was meant to happen. Nothing intimate has happened between us…yet. We just vibe together really well. He makes me happy and I make him happy too just being around each other. But he is my boyfriend’s brother and uncle of our child…What should I do?
Boyfriend’s Brother Lover
To quote my father, “Is you crazy, or is you crazy?” I’m pretty sure everybody knows the rules by now: 1) Don’t date your former significant other’s friends. 2) Be sure as hell not to even attempt to date your former significant other’s siblings. Not only will you bring an unnecessary amount of drama into your own life, but also into the life of your child. You need to dead these feelings before something actually happens. Trust me, being friends would be a much better alternative. You could avoid the drama that a romantic relationship would bring and still be able to experience those “good vibes” you guys currently have.
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